Right folks, just to follow up on previous post... and to conclude what my exact problem was.
It was indeed the Lower Front Ball Joint.
I took my car into Honda Stratstone in Bradford, and had them do a free health check (Takes about an hr). They gave me a few advisories... but I was only there to really find out exactly what I needed.
They confirmed Front Lower Ball Joint had excessive play, and wanted £208 to repair it.
Now, after reading on this superb website all the info which is at hand... I knew I could get it much cheaper elsewhere. (But the wife was insistant that I get the car fixed within the week, as we have 2 young kiddies, and my car is the main workhorse.... so despite getting it done cheaper than the £208.. I think I still could squeezed the price down, had I had more time)
Anywho... I enquired what the part number was... Stratstones part number was 51220-SDA-305 and they qouted £54.14 (incl VAT), and 1.3hrs labour.
(Interesting HH did not recognise this part number, and advised that they had it down as 51220-SDA-302... again it was £54.14... but when I was on phone to parts guy, he actually asked me if I was a member of Typeaccord... and offered me a slight discount on this price.
So.. armed with the info that I shouldnt be paying over £55 for the part... I rang Baildon Service Centre back (those guys who wanted £90+ for the part, as there systems said that thay had to replace a lower arm?!).
And proceed to lay down the law.... "This is part number, this is how much part is... its an hours labour (hehe), whats your labour rates? (£48+VAT) Can I have courtesy car for the day? etc etc"
They booked me in next day! (Woot!).... all in all by time they rang me advising that I could pick car up... "Oh and by the way you have a few advisories...", to which I relayed what all the possible advisories could be......The garage replied with... "Ummm, seems like you know your car inside and out... shall I stop trying the hard sell?" Ha!
I was £118 lighter in the pocket.