So ....miracles do happen !!!!!
Many thanks to Jon_G for this miracle as it was he who put up the
ebay link to "18g Castrol Red Rubber Grease Brake Caliper Fluid Handy MINI TIN" @ £2.37 free delivery
It arrived last Saturday (16th) but I've been postponing/prevaricating as I didn't really hold much hope.
Went for it this afternoon, with an ***istant on the brake pedal. Got the ***istant to press the brake pedal very slowly while the piston moved out as far as I dared, then shoved loads of the grease under the boot that covers the caliper piston (surface rust on the piston). Pushed the piston back, didn't go further than before, got the ***istant to press the pedal again, etc, etc a few times.
I was about to give up, then the piston started to go further back all of a sudden, very stiff though. Moved it back a fair way, then got the ***istant to move the piston out again, then piston went back with less resistance, all the way back.
Put on the new disc and new pads, and I am sooooo pleased that that hurdle has been jumped at a cost of £2.37 !!!!